5 days into the New Year....

.....without a 'they say....' moment.  Best remedy that.  They say, 'If it isn't broken, you shouldn't try to fix it.' That's good advice as far as it goes but, sometimes, people persuade themselves that something isn't really broken, even when it is lying in pieces right in front of their very eyes. Through some misplaced fear of making things worse, they walk away from their chance to make them a whole lot better. If you get an opportunity to repair some damage that's been done; to do that successfully, you must begin by entering the painful process of recognising the full extent of the wound or the break.

If you can do that without pity, fear, regret or resentment, you can really do some healing.

              

Don't listen to those who constantly speak. They have seen nothing. 
Listen to those normally silent. They have observed and seen the truth.