We all have aspects of....

.....our past that we now rather regret. There are invariably things we wish we had never done - or said. That's why we should always be just a little gentle when we find out facts about someone else's history and feel inclined to think, 'How could they ever have thought that that was okay?' Could not someone else point an accusing finger at you and ask an identical question?

You can be sure of only two things - You don't know anyone, and have never known anyone, who has any right to sit in judgement.  And an intense focus on the events of yesteryear will afford you no real progress or satisfaction.

You will begin to heal when you let go of past hurts, forgive those who have wronged you and learn to forgive yourself for your mistakes.