What's the difference.....

.....between love and hate? Both are illogical and unreasonable. Both involve close connections and deep emotions. But, unlike other opposites (such as day and night or sunshine and rain), we cannot say that there's a redeeming feature to the opposite side of the coin - or that, sooner or later, it will automatically flip over.

Wherever there is something or someone you despise, find something to like about it. A situation will only change once you change something in the way you see it.

Real progress never comes from getting the better of anyone, 

but from getting the best out of them.