When is a gain....

....really just a loss in disguise? When we think that we are going to benefit from a development, when in fact it is going to cost us so much to take advantage of an apparent opportunity that we might be better off allowing it to pass us by. And when is a loss actually a gain? When we cannot yet see the hidden benefits to letting go of something that we see as an asset but which is actually the cause of many problems.

There are often times when we need to look more closely at whatever it is we think we don't like the look of.

Failure is success if we learn from it.    (Malcolm Forbes)