Three dangerous words....

....Each time they are uttered, in this order, trouble of some kind is bound to ensue. 'Supposed'. 'To'. 'Be'. Oh, how tempting it is to string them all together without those quotation marks, and thus let loose the demon of destiny. This irritating imp lives within us all. It nags and niggles us. It urges us on to judge everyone and everything - most of all ourselves.

Is this what's supposed to be happening? Is that? Forget 'supposed to be'. Just deal with what 'is'.

If you find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded. (Maya Angelou)